
H: David saw you Thursday at the cafeteria.
E: He is so nice.
H: He said he didn't come over and sit beside you because you looked so grouchy. He thought you were in a bad mood.
E. I wasn't in a bad mood.
H. He said he really likes you, but you never speak to him.
E. I always say hi if he says hi to me.
H. Do you ever say hi to him first?
E. Well, no, but I like him and always talk to him when he says hi.
At this point, I couldn't stand it any more and had to butt in. I asked Em how come she never tries to be a friend to him. She said, "I really like him a lot. I just don't usually talk to people first."
How many people limit their friendships? Emily had no idea that David felt this way. She was shocked when she found out. I'll bet she speaks to him the next time she sees him.
As I start to think back on my morning, I wonder, did I miss out on a chance for friendship? Who did I not speak to? Who is wondering why I didn't speak? Are you missing out on a chance to make a friend? Or to make someone's day?